Who Needs a Counselor Anyway?

Who needs a counselor is kind of like asking who needs a teacher. If you are born again, it is true that you have the Holy Spirit as a counselor and a teacher. But it is also true that God still kept teachers in place even after He left us the Holy Spirit. Just like a teacher or preacher is the one who usually studies the word, and tries to gain expertise in understanding, so also does the counselor become the expert in the area their area of concern. Many times, due to the unclear thinking, confusion and sometimes delusion that is involved with addictions, a person needs outside help and tools to overcome. I have counseled many people who have read their Bible and prayed for years, but never had victory over their addictions. Like wise, I have counseled some who, after uncovering a few root causes, and passing on some keys that were new to them, eventually overcame their addiction. It is not a weakness to need help. It is humility to ask for it."Has not my hand made all these things, and so they came into being?" declares the LORD. "This is the one I esteem: he who is humble and contrite in spirit, and trembles at my word." Isaiah 66:2

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Let's Party

Often, when people indulge in substance abuse, it's referred to as "partying". God created us to party, but not with harmful substances.God has built in many times and season to party, celebrate, sing, dance and be joyful. Soon, it will be time for the Holy Feasts. Wherever you are in life, think about indulging yourself in "partying", by celebrating the Festivals this Fall.God know what you need and He knows you need to party. Fulfill yourself in Him, rather than the artificial,empty substances, and temporary pleasures, that only lead to destruction in the end.

Know what's inside

Right now there is much grief over our Country. When a Country is in trouble, and needs repair, God calls his people to grieve, mourn, fast, and pray. Don't stuff it in, get it out. Emotions need to be expressed. Many of the people I counsel aren't even aware of what their emotions are, therefore, they cannot express what they do not know.
A good way to find out what you're feeling is to sit before the Lord and ask him to reveal it. Before a word is on my tongue you know it completely, O LORD.
Psalm 139:4. The Lord already knows, but you also need to know what is going on inside in order to bring it back out to Him. This is one more way to avoid stuffing feelings that lead to destructive addictive cycles.

Pour it out

Pour it out. When we don't pour out what is inside, we either become stagnate or toxic. When we become stagnate or toxic, we try to mask what's going on inside through other mind altering substances or activities.
Pour it out just like the psalmist did. If you can't get out your own feelings in a psalm then pick a psalm that you identify with and speak it out for yourself.
For example: Psalm 6 6 I am worn out from groaning; all night long I flood my bed with weeping and drench my couch with tears. 7 My eyes grow weak with sorrow; they fail because of all my foes. 8 Away from me, all you who do evil, for the Lord has heard my weeping. 9 The Lord has heard my cry for mercy; the Lord accepts my prayer.
This Psalm, like so many, identifies, feelings of despair, sorrow, and ultimately hope. So get your pen and paper and pour it out to the One who hears and cares.

Fill up

Ephesians 5:18 Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit. The more we fill ourselves with the Spirit, the less will fill ourselves with wine or any other substance. So fill up on all God has to offer and watch the other cravings become less to none.